Finding a good match in your therapist can feel daunting. There are many to choose from and lots of promises that they can help you (I am guilty of doing this too).

It can feel overwhelming to navigate the various letters after their names or the types of therapy they offer.

Many people give up before they even get started.

It’s important to me that the clients I work with feel confident that I am the right fit for them. Especially because therapy is a significant investment of time, energy, and money. And often they are sharing things they may have never said out loud before.


What working with me actually feels like…

As my client you can expect to

  • Feel listened and highly attuned to

  • Be asked to consider other perspectives

  • Be invited to take personal responsibility

  • Be encouraged to stay close to your emotional experience

How to assess therapeutic fit…

Our therapy relationship is working if you

  • Feel comfortable sharing difficult things with me

  • Find yourself thinking about what we discussed between sessions

  • Have confidence that I am hearing, understanding, and absorbing what you share

  • Can more easily name what is happening in your mind and body

  • Are navigating experiences of rupture and repair together with me

Not sure if your situation fits? Take a look at who I tend to work with.